HOW TO GET A GUY TO CALL YOU

So you’re out on the town and you finally met a guy that you liked., You exchange phone numbers. It’s been two whole days and he hasn’t called you yet. So you start wondering what went wrong, and even going to the extent of thinking that you may have mistakenly given him the wrong number. Sound familiar? Though you didn’t do anything wrong, there are probably a few more things that you should have done. In this article we will discuss how to get a guy to call you after the initial contact.



Before beating yourself up about why he hasn’t called, first try being honest about the connection. Ask yourself "How did the conversation really go?" Try to recall if he approached you, or if you approached him. The reason being is because it really makes a difference. Sometimes, a guy won’t call back because he was only being polite, he was drunk and really doesn’t remember you, or he was just having a good time even though he already has a girlfriend. At times, the fear of being rejected may even cross his mind and prevent him from calling as well. You see, their reason really doesn’t say anything about you, so don’t be too hard on yourself.



If you are finally tired of waiting and you want to get to the bottom of it, you could always call him first. However, be sure to only contact him one time. If you have several ways to get in contact with him, (including a twitter page, facebook, and email) be sure to only contact him one time. Contacting him on an array of networks could raise a red flag. You don’t want to seem too desperate because it could be a turn off.



Once you make contact, try to keep your conversations short and sweet. Keep in mind that men are generally not ‘phone people’. They’d much rather go out, than talk on the phone. When you have him on the phone, try to insinuate the idea of another date; but don’t force it. Remember that you don’t want to seem anxious about getting to know him. Try to talk about simple things such as how his week has been so far and other things that will allow you to learn a little more about him. Asking about previous relationships and dating habits will surely prevent a possible date.



After you get his attention, remember that men generally want what they can’t have. Never seem as though you’ve been waiting on his call. If he calls you back, it is definitely okay to wait a day or two before calling, but if you like him you should call him back when the time is convenient. Avoid playing games. Most importantly, try to keep in mind that dating is a process that shouldn’t be rushed. Moreover, not everyone will be interested in hooking up, but that doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you. There are plenty of guys to date!





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